And I tried to remember any case in the course of my reading where two women are represented as friends. (...) almost without exception they are shown in their relation to men. (...) [women in fiction were] not only seen by the other sex, but seen only in relation to the other sex. And how small a part of a woman's life is that Virginia Woolf
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If you want to know what it feels like to be a woman, read the books written by men. We live in a male-dominated world so we know what men think of women and how they perceive them. They don't just see us as mothers and wives and girlfriends and sisters and daughters. They see us as sex objects, too.

Even in the rare cases where women are shown in a positive light, we see that they are still relating to men. If two women are friends, then we have to wonder how often this happens in real life.

Source: A Room Of Ones Own

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